← Previous · All Episodes · Next →
Dave's Open Mic: Ep. 4 Annie Lisa Episode 4

Dave's Open Mic: Ep. 4 Annie Lisa

· 01:05:00

|

Well, thank you very much for coming.

And thank you. It's a day for David.

What do you like? Either one?
I get that a lot.

Because I think David is really powerful.

I introduce myself as David usually.

Yeah, it's a good, strong.

But people call me Dave
and I respond, okay.

Yeah, no, I'm going to call you David
because I like it better.

Thanks.

Yeah, that's a friend of mine
back in West Hartford.

He goes by Dave because he felt
it was a little bit more relaxed.

He didn't want the form on this stuff.

Isn't it funny?

Yeah.

Like, my name is Ann, but I'm so not Ann.

Yeah.

I'm Annie.

And it's a little more fun.

It's more laid back. It's playful.

But definitely my father's entire
side of the family called me that.

And, yeah,
the Italian side called me Ann Marie.

Okay.

We settled with Annie.

Yeah, I like Annie outfits.

Yeah. It's fun. Definitely fits.

Thanks. Yeah. Yeah. Very cool.

So here we are.

You're back again in a studio.

You're here for what's good a while back.

And John and Joyce, who were amazing.

Yeah, that was fun. Yeah,
they're really, really good.

I'm not really sure where to start
because we, just.

I just want to talk about.

So I think we should start a little bit
about how we sort of met each other

and why you were on John and Joyce,
and you had a wonderful sister.

And I don't I don't know if we want to

talk about
the entire thing of what happened,

but I do kind of want to talk about
a little about how that changed your life.

And you have a very open mind that,

you see the world differently
than a lot of other people.

And I put it that way. Yeah.

So did did
your sister's death, like, instigate that?

I know you guys talked a little bit,
you know, before she passed about that.

And I'm sorry,
I'm starting right off here with kind of.

That's okay.

This is
this is a great place to start, right?

Wherever we end up
is where we're supposed to be.

Yeah.

That's definitely been the

a big catalyst in my life,
for obvious reasons.

Right? My sister and I were soulmates.

We were extraordinarily close.

She was not just my sister,
but she was, you know, my best friend.

She was my cheerleader.

She was my parent, you know?

She was my lover.

She was my spouse. She was my boss,

you know, she was my child.

So she she played a lot of roles for me.

But I think most importantly is that
we were each other's,

spiritual,

companions in this life.

And she, we were both,

very interested in spirit and, you know,

which started off
as a very in a very religious context.

And then as we got older,
she started seeing experience with energy

with her patients, and she was noticing

the connection between energy and illness.

And I was noticing the,

relationship between energy
and things that were happening

in my life, like this communication system
with guides, guidance

that was so profound and synchronistic
that it couldn't have been a coincidence.

So together we were just like,
oh, you know.

So I was just like,
oh my God, can you believe this?

Can you believe this? And it crescendo

nine months
to the day before she was murdered,

when we both realized
that we needed to take what we had

and step out in the world with it
because we felt like very, very like I,

you know, and I have a hard time
sometimes capturing what this moment was

like when we were in this hotel
in Newark, new Jersey, of all places.

Right?

Not exactly. What?

No, no offense to anybody from Newark,
but not exactly my destiny.

It wasn't like we were in,
you know, Arizona or anything like that.

To really understand, like,
these moments of total recall and dreams

and everything, like, all at once
and then go, I think

we're supposed to do something like.

It was such a strong feeling.

And my sister started to do that,
you know,

she started to get out in the world
and was really trying to

wake people up, if you will, like, look,

if you're
it doesn't matter how well you're eating,

it doesn't matter

how much yoga you're doing or how organic
or how much water or what you're doing,

if your emotions are not intact,
if you're if you're holding on to stuff,

you're going to get sick.

And that was her thing, and mine was
I want to let people know that

we're so much more capable of
so much more on a, on an energetic level

as human beings.

And like, you can make communication
and really have this incredible guidance.

My sister stepped out
and started doing it, but I didn't

because I was always struggling
with every February I would get depressed.

Yeah.

And then nine months later, like
so we understand we have this huge mission

and we get all of this confirmation
from the universe that we're right on.

And then my sister
is murdered and it's like,

you know, I mean, of

course, I was walking around saying,

how could my sister be gone?

But the second question was,
what about our mission?

Like it wasn't
that much a part of our lives.

So as a result, you know,

grief brings with it a lot of challenges.

And so I had a lot of challenges.

I had to continue on with my life.

I had to worry
about the safety of her children

and all the time in the background,

you know, I there's this mission, there's

this mission, there's
this thing that we have to do.

And so

finally,

just like my sister understood
all the message I was getting

from departed loved one,
she she got right on board immediately.

And,

you know, she

started, you know, giving me messages
about writing the book, and I did.

And continuing the mission.

She's continuing the mission.

She's the reason that the mission.

So when I talk about the mission,

I usually say mission Teresa's mission,
because this is our mission.

And the mission is to awaken
people during this incredible time

on the planet right now, which is just
I mean, I talk to people there,

you know, they're scared,
they feel powerless.

They're, you know, there's just so much
uncertainty on so many lives, angry.

And what I understood from my sister
and what she told me after

she was murdered was that we can,
you know, level up to all of this.

And it all went back to the emotions,
what she was doing when she was here.

But she kind of showed me
another way into that,

so that we have the ability
to wake ourselves up out of all of this

and really step into these
amazing beings that we are.

We are with this incredible potential
to manage through these times

and that we came here right now

to help uplift all of this.

There is something good on the other end,
right?

But birth is painful.

So when you before you give birth,
you might have to go through some pain.

And that's where we are right now.

And but we have the ability
to to really slide through it gracefully.

And that's what my mission is to help
people do that, to work with people,

talk to people. You know, of course
everything's in the book.

The more people who read it, you know,
I hope that that it sparks and

they have a moment where they wake up and,
you know.

Yeah. So that was a long answer. No.

That's good.
And I have so much more to say.

Yeah.

You said like, I feel like
there's got to be something more, right?

We're here for something
not just to kind of

get up and go to work and do this,
like there's, I mean, have you

have you found that what you're here for
is still struggling with that answer?

I mean, I, you know, to the first part,
yeah, we came here

to and enjoy the deliciousness
of being human, right?

I mean,
because there aren't too many places.

Well, there are,
but this is a very special place.

Earth is a very special place to be.

Yeah.

If you step back and sort of look
and think about it, it just it's

it's it's mind boggling
how special. I mean, it's incredible

to have a body.

Yeah.

And to be able to experience emotions,

to be able to dive in the ocean.

Right.

To be able to experience love, sex, food.

Right.

Just the beauties of all of it
is so wonderful.

But not to be attached to it and into it.

Just enjoy it all
without wanting to grasp at all.

Just be in it.

All right? So that's a beautiful thing.

So I've enjoyed that part of being human,
but what do I think my purpose is?

I really, truly believe,

as I try to imagine who
my audience is right now.

It's. Everybody.

We are. It's everybody.

So wherever you are on your journey,

we are here in this time and space.

We know we're not here by accident.

We chose to be here now.

And there are many thought leaders in this
space of expanding consciousness, okay.

And the awakening
and expanding of our consciousness

that understand that we came here
all with a mission.

And not just me, not just trees.

Every single one of us came here
with a mission, and many of us came

with this mission to help awaken humanity.

It's like bringing light
into the darkness, if you will,

and turning the key to evolve.

Two out of just the five senses.

Our five senses have limited us.

We think that they've they've limited us
because we think, well, here they are.

And if I if they don't pass this litmus
test, well, then it's not happening.

What do you mean?

Do you
want to explain the internet to me, David?

Because I got no 17 hours.

You can definitely try to. Have no desire
to explain the internet.

Right. So,

there's just so much more happening,
and it's time,

we're ready as, conscious
beings of light, which we all are

in this little vehicle
that we get to slop around in for a while.

We're going to that next space right now.

And we all made agreements to be here

now, and things are going
to get really exciting.

I believe with all this,

with all that's going on right
now, things are coming to a head.

So you're either going to level up or
you're not going to go along for the ride.

You're just not.

You're just going to sell some flow.

You're not going to be able
to handle the ride.

Do you think your sister's death,
was was part of her mission here?

Oh, yeah.

That's such a good question. Absolutely.

Now, I'm not saying that my sister
wanted to go out that way,

because nobody wants to go out the way
my sister went out for.

Okay. And, you know, some

incredible,

mediumship brought to me information.

You know, when you're working with medium,
you know,

they have to give you incredible,
evidentiary information

so that, you know, that they're
telling you something only, you know.

But that's one of the things
my sister said.

I'm not saying it was easy.

It in fact,
I think she said the ending was horrible.

But when I got to the other side,
it was high fives all around

because she completed her mission.

So we started the conversation here.

We understood it.

She got everything she needed to.

She didn't have to go out that way.

But she also had an agreement
with her husband. Right?

Everyone has agreement, but he never had
to go that far to show her the dark side.

She was the light. He was the dark.

He never had to.

Watts. Never about killing somebody.

When we're here, it's
about getting through that.

Learning your lessons
and moving on. It's always about love.

It's about forgiveness and love and light.

So, so that catapulted everything.

So I believe our mission
is to continue to work this way.

Now, I don't know what else
my sister has in store for me.

I wish I could tell you that
I sit down every day

and I do do it,
but not with any consistency.

And I'm like.

And I use tools that I have to say,

you know, use with muscle testing, like,
do you have a message for me?

And it's been pretty profound.

So I know and the and the music
synchronicity has blasted up again

for anyone who's read the book.

I heard I had a rock station on classic
rock, which I don't normally listen to.

Not that I don't adore classic rock,
but I mean, I've heard it so much.

Yeah,
trying to listen to classic rock. Yeah.

And I'm like, okay, well,
I don't know what kind of message

my sister will figure out on the station
today as I go to this podcast.

And last time I was here
writing out your book In My Life came

on, which is a key song.

And Sister
Christian came On, which is a key song.

As I was thinking about, what are we going
to talk about today and are you there?

And I'm like, well,
this is a rock station.

Like what?

She, you know, she's not going to come up

with a song for me on this station
that's ours.

I forgot about that one. Yeah.

So I feel like, yeah,
this was my sister's mission.

This is my mission.

We had to get over the grief because
I could be spiraling around in grief.

But I've released it, and it's not that.

It's not there.

Right?

It's just that it's there.

And when I need to engage with that,
for whatever purpose, I will.

But right now, I'm here
and I'm doing this work,

and this is my mission to help
get people to

whether it's overcome grief,
whether it's get along with their people,

whether it's get rid of anxiety
and depression and, and fears and phobias,

whatever it is to lift them up
to the next place with the work that I do.

That's my mission for now.

And is there more to come?

Yeah.

I think that door's gonna keep opening
with my sister

saying, okay,
and now we're ready to go here right now.

It's like, how do we get people

in a place

where the where they are loving beings?

And that sounds so cheesy, right?

Yeah, but guess what?

Love is a verb.

Everything has frequency and vibration.

The frequency and the vibration of love
is very, very high.

It's it's loaded with information
and and and power.

So when we are in a state of love and joy,

it has unbelievable vibrational power.

So you're you're healing people
without even talking to them

because it's a frequency thing.

Like you're just
just think about electricity.

You're leveling everything up.

So one at a time.

So even though I may be working one person
tomorrow who's going to talk about,

you know, they had a terrible childhood
and they want to get over these fears

and phobias.
I can't drive over bridges anymore.

I don't know what's wrong them.

I want to start a new business.

I can't get along with my husband,
whatever it is.

So they're affecting
not just the themselves and the people

that they live with.

But let's like a 1 in 100 or 1 in 1000,
like it's exponential.

So that's what my immediate mission is,
is to work with people on

just the fundamental,
what's going on in your life

with this quantum tool that's very quick
with the subconscious, which is

how we make these changes quickly.

And then so they're leveled up.

Everybody
they come in contact with is leveled up.

And even the people they don't come in
contact with are leveled up.

It's pretty amazing stuff.

That's how I got here.

Going back to the grief part,

getting over grief,
was that something that you worked on?

Is that something
that kind of came naturally?

You just lived day to day
and little by little, gradually.

Yeah. Filtered away.

I mean, it's still there, obviously.

But at a different.

Yeah, level.

It changes levels as you go through life.

Exactly, exactly.

It's like, I had a great metaphor for it

the other day about grief
as I was thinking about it.

It's always there, but, like,
how loud is the volume on it?

Do you know what I mean?

It's like it just gets farther away.

It just gets farther away, and
and then it's there.

But, like, you can decide to go there
and you can get pulled right into

it and then it's just like,

you know, it's just kind of there.

But for me, I mean, look,
my situation's a little different

because in addition to the grief,
there was

there was crazy ass fear, okay?

Because my sister
was brutally beaten with a hammer.

And so there was just this.

Okay.

And then when we realized about ten days
later

that I had just hugged
the guy who did it, oh, okay.

And that her husband was involved

and the kids were there,
it just became like over the top fear.

So there was a lot of, you know,
calling investigators and calling people

I know and asking them what they know
and trying to act

like I believed in his innocence,
even though I knew he did it like looking

at somebody in their face

right next to where my sister was beaten
to death

and saying, oh, I'm here for you
and the kids and going,

oh, so, so,
so that was before I learned you know,

my sister and I
were talking about the mission.

We weren't talking about the mission.

We were talking about
when she told me who killed her.

Yeah.

So that's how I knew.

I knew, and then she confirmed it
in extraordinary ways,

which I talk about in the book.

So, And we will get up.

You get a cat, will so links and.

Yeah, I don't mean to keep.

Like no, no, no, no, but it's like,
this is story or.

Talker and it's
I really get into that, that whole scene,

which was crazy when I realized he did it
and it was just

and it was in the same room with me
and it's like, are you kidding me?

So at first there was so much fear,

and there was
there was so many tasks at hand.

I mean, of course I would, you know,
I would walk around Ocean State Job Lab

and hear a song and just be like,
just cry and just cry, like shamelessly.

I drank a lot.

And that was the worst.

There was a lot of empty
being bottles in the house.

And, you know, weed didn't help.

Like, nothing helped.

People gave me all kinds of stuff.

And then one day, my good friend Zito

and creative partner
said, we're all worried about you, right?

You're never going to be the same again.

And it was like, oh,

oh yes, I will.

And the next day I quit everything.

I quit everything.

I said, I'm just going to be straight
in my head now. I did go.

Are you the. Same? No, no.

I think I am a much different person,
you know,

I am a much different person, and then I
and then the grief healing came once.

Like once I was able, once he was arrested

and the kids were in safety
then and then, of course, then definitely.

That was phase one when my sister started
talking about the mission and started

leading me synchronistic lead
to this video and to that opportunity.

And I started doing the work
with the subconscious, with the psychic,

I that's how I healed my grief
with the psychic,

because I worked with my subconscious
to release the grief.

So I went back to the moment of trauma.

Okay, for one thing.

And remember the day I got the phone call
from my brother Irwin?

You know, I was like, hey, what's up?

It's like cooking. Teresa's dead.

You know, so it's like, so
it's a triggering moment and that's PTSD.

So releasing
that which this tool is very fast

and also coming to this understanding that

the loss of a relationship or a person

is a natural part of the cycle of life,

like really understanding
that at a subconscious level.

And also because I had

I was talking to my sister all the time
like she just never went away.

Yeah.

So, yeah, I mean,
definitely those moments of God, I wish

my sister was here on the first Christmas
and the first birthday anniversary,

but, I would say I am,

I've not had any depression
like I used to.

Every February I would go down
and and yet I don't I understood.

That's understandable. Right?

With the work that I do, I understood
why I got depressed every February

because that's
when my mother started getting depressed.

When I was little,
my dad had okay, so I was playing out

my mother's what my mother,
what I picked up from my mother.

So I didn't need to know that
to get over it with the work that I do.

But I understood it,
so I never got depressed again.

Now I still, I, you know,

definitely had more periods of being,
you know, happy or sad or just.

But now I just
I could never be present in the moment

and enjoy exactly where I am.

I could be here all day
or I could be on the beach,

or I could be in the Caribbean
and I could just be there,

whereas before I could be in the Caribbean
and I was never really there.

Sure, I was thinking about everything.

Yeah,
thinking about what's happening next week.

And now I'm, I'm so in the moment now
and I feel joyful and happy.

I don't I'm not worried about things.

I mean, that doesn't mean that, you know,
I'm not the Buddha. I'm not the Christ.

I mean, things happen in my life.

And, you know, if you could have seen me
yesterday, I was like. Oh.

I guess what? I'm not perfect.

I still have a
lot of work to do, but I mean

drastically different than.

Well, I think that's part of it.

Accepting that you're not perfect
and be like, okay, well,

I'll just, you know, wake up tomorrow,
try it again, see what happens.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

That's great.
So what what kind of work is that?

What's it, what's it called?

You try it, though.

The work you do with people who are trying
to get over PTSD and stuff.

My sister showed me, started off,

with inviting me to a webinar
that I could not wrap my brain about.

I saw the webinar.

All I could think about was about tapping,
which is which is great.

Oh yeah. Tapping. Right people.

My sister used it in her office,
and so I said, I got inspired

because I went to this webinar and I'm
and and my sister got me their story.

So, I thought, okay, well, I'm
going to put this whole thing together,

I'm going to get back out there
and I'm going to talk about

all these things that I know about
how to communicate with the loved ones,

get in touch with your guides,
all the stuff

my sister taught me about, you know,
keeping your body good in your emotions.

And as I was putting that talk together,

somehow Bruce Lipton
showed up on my screen

talking about the biology of beliefs

and explaining his research
about the subconscious.

And the moment I heard that,
it was like my whole brain just went,

this is the deal.

This is why we get stuck
in the same patterns over and over again,

because our subconscious
is running our lives 95% of the day.

Only we don't know what's happening.

It's like driving a car
and not knowing how you get home.

Your subconscious is doing it.

We go through our lives.

So that was such a big light bulb.

And then immediately, of course,
the question is, well, how do I stop

my subconscious for messing with my stuff,
you know, and

and then immediately, serendipitously,
this next video popped up

and it was not at a time
when the algorithm was like,

the algorithms weren't like they were now.
It was like the next day.

So I found this tool
called psyche CCH for psyche

for I love you, Rob Williams.

The Key to Sustainable Change.

Rob that's a very long way of saying
psyche, the psyche.

And it's the key to sustainable change
because it's sustainable change.

Like you make a change and you're there
until you level up to the next place.

So I started doing psych.

I thought it would be an instructor
and travel

around the world
and teach people this tool.

I never signed up for a session on myself.

I just knew this is the mission.

And of course I asked my sister.

I got confirmation on the radio
and I signed up to learn

how to use this powerful tool,
which basically is a combination of,

you know, neuroscience, technology
and old wisdom, ancient wisdom

brought together
where you create a whole brain state

by doing these postures that Rob Williams
was downloaded like this tool like,

and this is a real

this was a guy who worked out in corporate
America, was working with people

and therapy sessions
and wasn't having any changes.

And in a moment of frustration, I got this
divine download about this amazing work

and he kept it and really worked with it,
like it was like

a teleprompter of information
that he just got.

So we started using on himself
and saw changes

and started working with his clients,
and then he opened it up.

So there's only about 50,
instructors in the world.

So I dove right into it, and I started
working with myself every day.

Every single day.

I started working with my subconscious,
you know, and use muscle testing.

So that's what's so cool,
because people are like, well,

how do you know
what's on your subconscious?

How do you know
what's on your subconscious?

We don't have access to it
consciously. What?

But your muscle testing does.

And so it's like having a lie detector.

So if I say my name is Annie,
this is my muscle test.

I'm going to be strong
because my name is Annie.

My subconscious knows
that if I say my name is Charles,

I'm just going to fall over, okay?

Because your subconscious
can't say something

that isn't true and hold this position.

It's going to give out.

And so with people,
we muscle test with their arms.

And so I started with myself
one balance at a time

and finally got to my self
a place where I felt comfortable

working with other people
and went on and took all of the training

so that I could be a preferred,
as we call it, a preferred facilitator.

And I opened up my practice,
and I knew this was a great key.

And that's when the whole you need
to start writing the book, you need like

you need to get this in the book,
like people need to know about that.

You can't do it.

One person at a time like you can.

But like, what?

If you could talk to 500 people?

What if you could talk to 5000 people?

So put the whole story in the book.

It'll be compelling. It'll be great.

But I was just like,
yeah, I know, I'll do it.

My procrastination sure was.

So that was something
I had to work on. A lifelong.

Are you?

So not so 95 or so.

Are you less now subconscious living.

So. So like, how does that work?

Like, how does how do you
how do you know? Yeah.

How do you know. It's work so.

Well we start to see the changes
in your life. Right. Okay.

So everyone's living in their subconscious
now 95% of the day.

That's the design.

Only in our conscious mind,
consciousness is 5%.

It's wishes and desires.

Wishes and desires.

I'm going to quit smoking right now.

I'm going to a place of conscious.

I say that to make a conscious decision.
Right?

But your subconscious goes,
oh no, but if you work in New York,

people get murdered in remember
what happens to it.

All these other programs that you
accumulated from 0 to 7 take over.

And you you either do it
and sabotage yourself right out of it.

You know, because we're vibrational beings
bringing in these experiences

so we don't even understand
what self-sabotage is.

But people say it all the time.

Your self-sabotage is

going to take a break.

So everybody knows what
the Law of Attraction is.

Okay,
so you can say whatever you want about it,

but the law of gravity is a real
deal, man.

It says Law of Attraction
sure doesn't matter whether or not

you believe,
but it's every bit is absolute.

So people have their affirmations.

People are getting down with
understanding, you know, I'm beautiful.

I'm filled with abundance.

And you can say that as often as you want.

I'm filled with abundance.

Money flows to me.

But if you grew up in a house
where your parents worked three jobs

to put food on the table,

and your father kept saying,
you can't afford those sneakers.

Nope, can't afford it.

And your Uncle Willy came over
and every Saturday night

said, people with money are assholes.

This becomes your program.

So even though your wish and desire
is to believe that your subconscious

is operating 95%, and that's what
the Law of Attraction is responding to.

So if you want to have what you want
when your to, your question is, well,

how do you know what you want
is subconscious alignment

with your conscious wishes and desires.

So that's when if somebody came into me

and whatever they were dealing with
at the time, we would muscle tests.

They know people know what they need.

They know the why.

So what do you want

when you well, I want to know
that I have enough money to pay my bills.

Okay, well, let's muscle test that.

Well, of course
it's weak, you know, because they know.

And then you do the balance
and you muscle test the same statement,

and they're strong
and they feel it in their body.

They're like, holy crap.

And then just things start to shift
and happen.

It's like,
oh my God, I got a job offer. Yeah.

Or somebody saying they were all phobic
and paranoid about a presentation

they had to do, and that that was
what our, our session was about.

And then all sorts of weird things
come out.

Why just don't even sometimes I just don't
even think that I'm smart enough.

So one goal statement as we call in sick,
it's like a domino effect.

It could affect many areas in your life.

And then you talk to the person three days
later, they guess what that presentation

like, I'm doing so great with it.

And then two days later it got canceled.

I don't even have to do it now.

Like it's off, like vibrationally. Yeah.

Things just start to happen.
Everything works out.

I that's I'm a true believer
that eventually it will just you just,

you know, like right.
Where you're supposed.

To be, where it's supposed to be
and everything works out.

However it's going to work out.
That's the way it's going to work.

And it's like, yeah,
it is. It's sort of the law of attraction.

Like I yeah, no, I have this bill
do of it'll get paid, you'll be fine.

That will happen is huge. Yeah. David just

even though it's

conscious but just being like

I'm good with that too. Oh my God.

Yeah I got this bill.

It's just like, think about what
that feels like in your body.

Yeah.

And the electron magnetic field around you
and what that looks like,

that this is just how the universe.

Works, because it goes back
to, like, we're not here to pay the bills.

Just just like stuff that happens
because you need to live and survive.

But that's not really why we're here
is a sort of a byproduct stuff.

So why get all stressed out about it?

And, you know,

okay, so there are individuals maybe that

they really have to worry
about that big for whatever reason.

But, you know,
I think I'm in a spot now where I'm

I'm grateful and I'm happy
and I'm blessed that, you know, I can

it's worrisome.

And there's things that have to get paid.

But, you know, I'm grateful for I am.

I'm in a spot where I can say, like,
now it's okay, like a pain.

And then you're right.

And then things happened
and the phone ring

and I'll get a job,
and here comes a check, or I get paid.

Matter of fact,

I was doing, I was doing some banking
the other day, and I'm like, all right,

you know, because the production business
is sort of fluctuating a little bit.

But, you know, I'm doing really well.

And, it's like, I counsel and all.

That's right, you know, be okay.

And like, the next day I got like,
three clients, like, paid.

I'm like, just what.

Happened? So.

Great. Yeah. So, Yeah, it's.

You just can't it's it's to got other
things to think about and worry about.

I can't let that worry about,
like, doing this. I love doing this.

This is something that doesn't
bring me any income or brings me joy.

It brings me joy, brings me fun.

And when I started, it was something
that was a tool or something.

I would just do it because it's
kind of fun and I hope that you have fun.

And my other guests enjoy it.

And we certainly we can kind of enjoy
a little conversation.

So yeah. You just, you know,
you just hit it right on the head.

You said it brings me joy.

So whenever you are vibing with joy,

you're
going to create more joyful experiences.

And you know what?

Abundance is pretty joyful. Yeah, right.

When you have enough money

to do what you want to do
and help others, right, and pay it forward

wherever you can.
Yeah, coffee and whatever.

And it can get bigger and bigger, but.

When joy is the goal,

everything else just falls into place.

Yeah, it's
joint and and and and contentment too.

Or just,

making these conscious decisions
that are going to bring you

that joy or, just

doing what you need to do.

You like we talked about that earlier.

Just be you just be just be you. Yeah.

But people have a hard time.

I mean,
most people don't know who they are.

Yeah.
Because they're living in a program.

Sometimes it takes their entire life
to figure that out.

They're living in a program. Yeah.

And they're, they're going to therapy.

And I'm not knocking therapy
if you want to go to therapy.

But of course therapy creates awareness.

It doesn't change the program.

The program is the program.

If I'm working in an Excel spreadsheet
and that's all I have on my Mac,

I can't use word
I can't do on another type of document

because I've only got this program
if if I got a playlist of songs,

those are my songs.

Yeah, that's my genre,
you know, drama, tragedy and heartbreak.

I can't listen to ABBA or

whatever.

Happy music because this is my play.

Your subconscious is your playlist.

So when you decide that you want
those things and they're not happening,

all you got to do
is just get it on your playlist.

So people
generally don't know who they are, is

because they haven't had an opportunity
to become who they are,

really authentically,
because they're in the program.

And we're taught from an early age
that we don't have any of the answers.

Everybody else has the answers.

Your parents have the answers.

Your teachers have the answers.

Your doctors, your nurses, your policemen,
your government,

everybody, your boss.

You don't know anything.

Think about that.

No, it's absolutely true.

I agree,
all part of our collective program,

which we're all starting
to finally wake up from.

But people have a hard time
because they'll go, well.

The doctor said, well, what do you think?

That's how I said, well,
what do you think?

You have all the answers within you.

And, you know, if you were told, you know,

I was told, you know, young ladies
don't sit at the bar, my father.

But if I didn't sit at the bar

that day at the airport in Phoenix,
I would have never met Peter.

Now, for whatever
that's worth, that's a big thing.

Sure, if you don't go to college.

But I know plenty of people
who didn't go to college, so we just we

we become this collection,
this storehouse of ideas

and thought forms and beliefs
that we never chose because from 0 to 7,

they're there, and that's who you become.

And you can have conscious awareness
about it, but

you might have to struggle
and read a lot of self-help books

and really use a lot of motivation
and willpower to override that program.

And generally
you're going to go back to the program.

It's why you have to, but it's so much
better align your program and life

becomes more of a self-fulfilling prophecy
instead of a struggle, a struggle.

It's just, yeah, you're right.

In your script.

You're taking hold
of the narrative of your life.

You become the conscious creator
of your life

instead of defaulting to a program.

Bruce Lipton says.

He always says that's a that should
really be classified as nonfiction

because it's like we're our
our subconscious is like a matrix.

It's a matrix of ideas
that have locked us in

and a lot of them are collective
ideas, right?

That we don't know anything.

All the answers are outside of us,
but all the answers are inside of us.

We were born with all the answers
inside of us.

Yeah. There's a I'm going back to Joyce.

When you were on the show,
I don't know if I might.

I don't think it was your
when you were on, but she's having a show.

She's talking about,

you know, talking to the doctors
and being the doctors saying

and all that kind of stuff.
There's a story, and I'll try to make it.

Make it
because I think it's a great story.

A mom and dad,
mom and mother, a mom and a daughter.

Here we go. Went to the doctor
because, mom thought she had.

She was, kidney problems.

She had, like, kidney stones or something,
and she was, what do you call him?

Yellow. Oh, he had jaundice. Jaundice.

So she's not said stones or something.

So. So they go to make an appointment
to go to the doctor?

The doctor looks.
I guess they had surgery plan.

That was everything.
So the doctor opens her up and,

The daughter's in the waiting room, right?

And, he looks in
and there's cancer in there, right?

It's not. It's cancer.
So they can't do anything about that now.

Whatever. So close it back up and goes out
and tells she's recovering.

Tells the daughter,
and she says, don't tell my mom anything.

Don't say a word. I'll take care of it.

So the doctor says, okay, so,

you know, mom gets better at your wakes up
and they leave.

She's like, I feel so much better.

This is great.

And and she tells a doc, she's like,
doctor, I'm never going to get sick again.

I feel so much better. Thank you.

And then I guess there's a follow up
months later.

And you did this
and all the cancer was gone.

She decided she made a conscious,
I'm not getting sick again.

Like I'm not.

She didn't even know. Yeah, daughter
didn't say anything.

I could just
just and, it's I mean, it's like.

A lot of.

It's not that. Crazy.

I love it.

That's a crazy story.

And there's hundreds of thousands,

if not millions of stories like that
that we don't get to hear.

Yeah. Why is that so? Yeah.

Why don't we hear there's so many.

You got to tune in to the right channel
because it's all there.

Doctor Kelly Turner
wrote a book called Radical Remissions

about people with stage four cancer.

Why did some people come back?

You know, the doctor said

you've got four months,
go home and get it together.

You're going to die.

And we believe as a doctor. Yeah.

Our beliefs are powerful. It's
what we are.

There are, there are so many stories,

testimony, real testimony of people
who have come back

from an incredible diseases.

And so Doctor Kelly Turner,
which is a book that my sister gave to

all of her patients and I give to anybody
if the time is right.

She realized what

the reason why some people were getting
better

had nothing very little to do
with what they were eating

and what their cancer treatment was.

It had to do with their level of joy.

In this case,
this person made, for whatever reason.

And is it because her story was meant
to be told of what we're capable of?

I don't. Yeah.

There's also another among many,

the story of the people
who had the knee surgery.

Right there were, I don't know, 12 people.

And,
they all needed knee replacement surgery.

So they all believe they were getting

they didn't know
they were part of this experiment.

So was a blind,

double blind.

Everyone was blind, I know, but they went
to the Ed to Art through all the stages.

They went through the pre-op,

they went into the operating room,
went under anesthesia,

their legs were cut open.

They went through the whole thing,
the post up and everything.

And all of those people walked
and never had pain.

Even the ones who had never had knee
replacement.

If that doesn't say volumes
about the placebo effect, it's it's huge.

Yeah, we are living in a placebo effect.

Right.

And you know, there's
so many pharmaceutical drugs

out there that really you know,
my sister was like, you know, there's

really no proof that this one works,
but it works because you believe it does

so. And I think
just thinking about that, you you so

the mom believe that she's sick and she,
she's better

and she's not sick and she's fine
and she's healthy and it's fixed.

And she believe
that she's never getting sick again.

And she never did.
She never got sick again.

But I think the daughter
also has to believe that.

Oh, it's very important. So.

But the daughter, just

so the daughter was the one who,
she said, don't tell my mom.

Yeah, right.

But so somehow I because she.

Knew and and she says
because that will kill her. That's what.

That's what. So the doctor said, please,
doctor, don't. Please don't tell me.

Maybe that was it right there. She she.

So the daughter knew that
if her mom believe something right

then that that is the. Truth, right?

And perhaps the daughter also knew
now that my mom doesn't believe that,

I know it's not going to kill her like so

what kind of alignment was going on that
they were both able to level up to that?

I don't know, it's it's,

do I think we

all have the ability to proclaim it,

to intend this
with all of our energy to say,

I'm not going to get sick,
which actually we would never say not.

We would say, I am,
because that's so much more powerful.

I am healthy, yeah, I am cured.

That in my experience
and I guess, you know, we know.

Does that really happen all the time?

It doesn't.

Are we capable of doing that?

Absolutely.
I think everybody is capable of doing it.

100%.

Why are some people then be able to do it
like that?

Right. Well, I'm in in some people.

Because it all depends on
what their belief systems are.

It all comes down. To what they do.

So I'm saying they believe it's like I'm
I am healthy, right?

But they it's.

Because
because subconsciously remember 95%.

Okay.

So there might be something in the
subconscious and I'm and I'm, you know.

Oh by the doctors. No,
you don't know anything.

You have to ask your doctor.

We don't know what happened
in that child's 7027.

Yeah.

We don't know what that child was,
what was downloaded as a belief, a belief.

So our beliefs create
our reality. Rights building blocks.

If I give you your vocabulary.

I control what you say.

If I say here's, here's your 300 words
David

I'm going to control what you think.

So if I give you your beliefs
I control what you experience.

Because only this is possible.

That's the matrix.

This is

these are the fundamentals
of our experience in our reality.

And everybody not everybody.

But like come on guys,
everybody get on board.

People and and all sorts of practitioners
except for the ones who are holding on

for dear life
to that mainstream narrative.

And there are plenty of people
they're not going to stray

from that Western medicine,
because that's the standard.

And anything that doesn't fall,
it just gets washed away.

But there are plenty of people
having incredible healing experiences

that defy everything that Western medicine
look at.

My sister is a Western doctor
and she's talking about,

well, what are your what are you feeling?

What's going
on? I'm looking at your results.

Your poop looks good,
your blood looks good.

You're doing more yoga than I am.

You're exercising, and I and I'm.

And I'm real good.

And I eat real good,
and you're eating better than me.

And you're doing all this stuff.

So what's going on in your life?

The patient would go, chase would go,
come on, you're at my altar.

What's going on?

She'd spend an hour and a half.

This was how she practiced.

I'm having a really hard time
with my husband or

I realized that I was abused
when I was a child.

Or, like, these things are coming up so.

Well, that's why we're getting sick.

That's why you're getting sick.

Because what you'll also learn
when you watch more, Bruce Lipton, is that

98% of all disease is formed by an A.

It's starts with an emotion.

When we don't release this stuff
that's in our program,

it has nowhere to go. And it's energy.

It's going to fester
to the most vulnerable place in your body.

So just because your mother had breast
cancer doesn't

mean you're going to get it.

So don't get all kooky, but everybody does
because they believe it,

because that's what they were told.

But what happens is

you get the breast cancer
because you're not letting go of fear.

You're not letting go of something.

And it's that energy.

You know how you feel when you feel scared
when you.

But the thing is, a lot of the stuff
is just operating the background.

You don't even know.
It's just churning there.

My sister happened to ask that patient,
what is it?

And she knew what it was

and totally forgot what your question was.

No, that's,
that's that's from that. That works.

That's a good answer.

And and that's good
that your sister do that

because I think a lot of doctors now,
I don't go to the doctor.

I probably should, but,
It probably shouldn't.

I just, I go and,

I have to, but,
Yeah, they're not, they're not,

years ago,

took my son to the doctor
with the typical ADHD.

And I feel terrible to this day.

And we went
and I don't even think we saw his doctor.

I think we saw the physician's assistant
or whatever they're called.

And it wasn't really even a conversation.

It was just like,
oh, here's some medication. Right.

So we don't trust in the doctor.

This was 20 years ago or whatever it was.

And, you know, it didn't
they didn't agree with it.

And credit to my son,
I love him to death for doing this.

He says he just, No,
this isn't working with me.

I'm done. And he just stopped,
and we never go back to doctor.

And he stopped.

And he learned over the years to, handle

what he needs to handle.

And, he's better for it.

And it's, I talked to him
not too long ago, and he says

he's not.

He's not mad at me or

or his mom or anything,
but he's a little bit like, why?

Like why did you
why did you do that to me kind of thing?

And I'm like, you know, because I know,
you know, there's a doctors.

That's what we do.

That's all we do.

We're taught to like,
this is the darkness is

this is what they're trained to diagnose
and treat and this is how it's treated.

So this is what we do. And looking back,
yeah, it was the wrong decision.

Absolutely. Hundred
percent wrong decision.

Maybe there was somebody else
we could have talked to, but,

I mean, it was the thing
where, as I said,

the doctor wasn't even there,
I think was the physician's assistant.

And, you know, it was like a quick visit.

Oh, this is it.
Boom, boom. He checks all the boxes and,

Yeah.

So it's unfortunate. That's that's
kind of where we are.

But, he's he's.
I think he's better for it.

I think he learned about himself.

I mean, I learned about myself.

Sure.
Yeah. And it's good. So, but, it's.

I have the same experience with my son.

But I, I, I know, know the teacher

telling me every day, every day,
and I'm like, no, no pediatrician.

No, no.

Took him to, a psychologist
who I really respected

a lot, who was not going to go there.

But he said, you know,
after a few minutes, he said, well, he's,

definitely past the doctor, you know,
Horowitz test.

He's now upside down in the chair like so.

And so that was enough for me,
because my belief system

was that he knew more than I did.

I wasn't going anyway.

It was the biggest mistake. Okay.

Because my son, you know,
the lips got really dry.

He got really thin.

He was peeling his lips
and he wasn't eating.

And I said to him, honey,
how do you feel in there?

And he goes,

I feel like my brain's in a cage, mommy.

And I, I could still hear.

I could still see her face.

Same age as her son, like 8 or 9. Yeah.

So then we go on vacation.

So then I was taking him off.

If we went on vacation, you know, it was
just like he's not in school anymore.

And then during one of the vacations,
I took him to the YMCA.

I said, let's go for a swim today.
It was like February. Like what?

What are we going to do?
Which is crappy out.

And I had him on a med vacation,
and so he's swimming in the pool

and he's having a blast.

I'm talking to this lady and I
this was a serendipitous, divine

moment of information,
and she told me the story about someone

she knew, who
both of her kids were on this, and the,

the boy committed suicide.

They were like nine.

He hung himself on a swing,

and they that they were seeing the signs
and they took him off the medicine.

And I remember looking at my son, the pool
gone, oh, my God, he's never going on.

We're just going to manage it.

Yeah. So we did
I just came up with some other things.

But you know, I think that's just

we overdiagnosed everything
you want to label everything.

Just like,
you know, kids who are autistic,

those are some really brilliant people.

And they just might be involved in a place
where they don't need language.

We think that language is so advanced

because we have an alphabet
and we have language.

Well, telepathy is far more advanced
and there is no language

and there are no letters.

So, I was really grateful.

But again, so maybe I didn't go with what
the first doctor said, but at the time,

because this guy was a doctor
and I like this guy.

And but in my gut, from day one,
I knew I didn't want to do it.

Yeah. And I didn't listen to myself.

Yeah.

Because you do your work. Yeah.
This was in the. Program. Because you.

But yeah, this is what the doctors say.

You know,
I don't feel it's right. Well, he's.

But the. Doctor is. Smarter than me.

He's he's knows more than me. Right?
That kind of thing. Right?

Right there. Yeah.

Even though I don't feel it's right.

Trust your.

Healing.

It's it's it's pretty powerful.

They're there for a reason.

We've we've been given these emotions
and these feelings for a reason.

And they help us navigate.

Well, you know, why didn't I?

I wish I trusted my feelings when I knew
that Mark Sievers was the creepy dude.

I should have said to my sister,
he kind of get rid of this guy.

Yeah, get rid of this guy.

I just felt it, like, right here.

But I didn't because I wasn't
going to this a little too early to tell.

Give him a little time
and don't jump the gun.

And, well, when people live in a
different state, you don't get to observe.

And the next thing you know,
you're out there wedding.

So I trust my gut to say the least.

I really just listen.

And sometimes it's uncomfortable,
you know, it's uncomfortable

for other people
and in the most loving way.

I speak my truth.

And so this is how I feel.

And I appreciate all of this information.

I appreciate that, but this is I'm
not feeling any alignment with that.

I'm feeling alignment with this.
And I'm going to go with this.

Yeah. And it's okay to go with that.

Yeah. We have to.

Yeah yeah, yeah. Wow.

It's heavy.

Right.

It's like yeah yeah yeah.

So what else is happening.

Let's what else you got going on?

So you so you have speaking.

You do speaking engagements

and you do speaking engagements
about what we're talking about or those.

Yeah. Yeah. Everything okay.

So right now it's, it's sort of, I've

we do a little

bit of reading of the book
because people like that.

So I make it a fun event,

you know, like I've had a couple of them
and I've gotten some really.

I've got bigger audiences for this book
than I ever did with my band

because the cover I it's compelling bands.

Yeah.

So, so,

I read from the book
and then I pivot into like, the mission

because, like,
that's what the book is about.

And I give people this

20, 25 minute discussion
about the subconscious.

I talk very quickly about this
is there's many work

because I don't want people to think, oh,
because people have belief systems.

She's just trying to sell us something.

She just wants us to know.

What you need
to get out of this conversation

is that we're living in unprecedented
times.

We're on a trajectory right now
with this planet that does not look good,

and we all have the ability
to change the world.

But change starts with you.

It's an inside job.

So when you start to get rid
of all of your fears and your anger

and your regrets in your sorrows
and your bitterness and your jealousy,

and start living your life from joy,
that's

how we're going to change the world.
That's my mission.

I explain how it all works
with the subconscious.

I tie it all together with a nice bow.

I talk about this is the tool that I use.

I use it because it's
what doctor Bruce Lipton use.

And this is what my sister told me to do
after she was murdered.

How you choose to change
your subconscious is entirely up to you.

And go to Bruce Lipton's website.

He has 14 different ways.

If you want to talk about

how I took the fast track
from Joy to grief, we can talk about C.K.

and hey, if I'm not your cup of tea
because everybody's going to vibe with me,

we'll go on the website

and you find someone else to vibe with,
and that's kind of how I leave it.

Like, I'm giving you this message
and I have great music,

I have a great setlist to get everybody,
like In the Mood of the power,

because it's all about understanding
about the power of love.

That's the end of the day.

When you create the life that you want
that brings you joy.

We create a world
that we all want to live in.

And the key that the secret sauce to
that is love, love,

love, love the transformational power.

Strong love is unreal.

That's it all makes sense. Yeah, right.

That's why so much about it
really, truly forgiveness and love.

And, so that's what I do.

And, about optimism.

Wow. What about it? Okay.

What about it?
Think about it. So. No. Yeah.

So you said, like, we're on a trajectory.
That's not good, right?

Well, maybe, but I want to be optimistic.

Saying that everything's like I said.

I mean, I just wish you said desire.

Is going to work out, like.

Yeah, it's like it's like it's a
it's a shit show.

Right.

But but I think things there will,
there will be a calmness.

I think that it always happens.

It has to, it has to.
It just has to even out.

Things have to get better,
things will be better,

and there's no other direction
we can go except getting better.

That's.

I truly believe that
in one way or another,

whether it's tomorrow or ten years
from now.

I don't know.

I just, I think if you truly believe that,
I think that's

really all that matters up for the people
who don't truly believe that.

And they run around going, oh my God.

Like, yeah.

Then that's a problem.

And I think that if your vibe is
things are going to get better,

things are going to get better.

Then maybe that's
what your light is about on this planet.

Maybe you just being authentic, David

going around going, it's going to be
all right now because it matters.

I'm not minimizing it
because that matters.

Yeah. Right.

Because you bring a vibe to your space.

And if that's in if you're in alignment
with all that, that's great.

Most people aren't there.

And if things do continue to go

the way they're headed.

If you are in a vibration

of love and joy,
which I know how fluffy that sounds.

So take it easy everybody, I get it.

I'm talking about it
from a vibrational perspective.

This is quantum physics, okay?

If you're in a place
where you're floating above all that,

you're going to walk through this
and you're not even going to get scathed,

you're not going to feel it
because you cannot

you're not going to be in that place.

It's like pause.

Is that is that a
is that a bad place to be, though?

Some people say, well, you're not paying
attention to what's happening. Okay.

So I love that. No.

Does it mean I'm apathetic okay.

Because I don't choose to read,
you know, the New York Times every day.

And I don't choose to, you know,
watch everything that's going on.

Every judge does not mean I'm apathetic.

It means I understand what's happening.

But just spinning it around
all day is not it's not.

There's no help there, okay?

There's no help there.
And protesting about it.

You're proclaiming the same thing
over and over and over again,

and you're creating more of the same.

You're saying we need peace.
We need peace.

What does the universe keep delivering?
We need peace.

It doesn't deliver peace. It delivers.

We need peace.

So there's a real false perception
of that. It delivers.

We need peace.

I'm trying to get a job.
I'm trying to get a job.

You're trying to get a job. You're
trying to get a job. Oh. It's interesting.

Wow. I have a job.

It's very powerful. It's a game changer.

So what would be different then?

We have peace.

Well, and aligning yourself with joy
and understanding that as individuals,

when you are in a state of joy
and you let go of that,

and you let go of that and stop trying
to control all of that, because you can't.

So, you know, you.

Can't, you have to believe it,
that we have peace then and.

Then you have to believe that
we have peace and you have to be as well,

you know, a symbol of peace,
and you have to vibrate peace.

Because when you start living
and you start getting rid of,

I look at like the hot air balloon, right?

You get all the sand bags
pissed at my mother,

you know, I hate my boss.

Why am I fat and ugly?

Why can't I get that job that I want?

Why don't I have any friends?

Why don't I have any?

I can't speak all of these.

These are all negative
things that are weighing you down.

When you start to purposely say,
I speak my truth,

I forgive my mother and love her
for who she is.

I forgive whatever

Mark Sievers

for murdering my sister
because that was their divine duty.

I'm not saying that was easy.

You forgive him. I'm the Buddha, I had to.

Yeah, I had to.

I guess
otherwise it's a constant vibrational.

And I'm not saying I don't get triggered.

Oh my God, I was so triggered yesterday,
I thought I was going to lose my mind.

I was ready to jump off the dining
room table.

Okay. But I had to do. I had to sit down.

I had to quickly
do a balance and moved it.

But once you start getting rid
of those sandbags, you float above it all.

The power is inside here.

It's not walking out there
and expecting those things to change.

The things are going to change.

Not because

we stopped
doing business with these people.

We stopped having war with those people.

It's it's not going to happen
because we did A, because we did B,

because we did see
because all of these things happen.

It's going to happen like this.
The change.

It's going to be a vibrational thing
because this thing is going on so long,

we're not going to be able
to retract that.

You know,

Einstein said, you can't solve a problem
from the same place that it started.

We're not going to correct this problem
by correcting every one of these things.

That's wrong.

That's very linear.

It's very it's dinosaurs.

Things don't work that way.

We're understanding now, people
like the story that you told me

and things that Greg Braden
is talking about, and Doctor Bruce Lipton

and Michael Beckwith
and all of these amazing thought leaders

in the space of quantum physics
and the new science

and the convergence of science and spirit
coming together, that we are capable

of creating this quantum change
without having to do Abcde.

You have to like going through all these,

you know, plans,
and now it's not going to work that way.

The whole thing is going to go, and it's
going to be a whole new way of being.

And we all have the ability to do that.

And that's what my mission is,
because when you are vibrating that love,

that's how you start to change things up.

And that's why you go, well, hey,

if I'm just like having positive thoughts
and I feel good, that's not a bad thing.

That's a great thing.

And if you could stay in that space,
right, if you could check in like what

I always say to people,
are you feeling resistant about anything?

Do you feel know,
I feel pretty good about everything.

Perfect.

But when you start to feel the.

Okay we'll get it out.

I mean when I wake up in the morning
and I go what, what's nagging at me?

And I'm like oh it's that.

So those are the talks that I do.

It's, it's kind of.

It's hard to get out there
and have these talks sometimes.

You know what I mean because you've
got to know where your audience is.

So I give it here
and then I offer, you want to talk.

And I do mostly everything I do.

Unless we're doing a one on one session,
it's free.

Okay.

So if I have an event,
if I have to pay for the space, well,

then I'm going to charge you 20 bucks.
But you're going to get my book. Yeah.

And the book is 20 bucks
if you want to buy it.

So I have to hold your space.

But I'm trying to give away
as much information as I can.

And then if people want to do sessions
with me, great.

If somebody wants to book me
for a private event, you know,

and, you

know, an inspirational talk,
a motivator, I'll talk.

I could tailor my talk a little bit more.

Like if it's at your workplace
and you want to have more productivity,

book clubs and things like that.

I find it hard.

And people
I mean, a lot of people hate the job.

There is a period in my life
where I didn't want to do this anymore.

Not this, but this.

But you get up every day, and you just.

Do you. Like I said, you'd be optimistic.

Things are going to be good,
and you keep moving forward.

And I love what I do now.

I just my world changed for me, recently,
and I just I love it, I fucking do.

I'm sorry. I'm swearing,
but that's okay. Yeah.

You didn't say that.

You just kind of floated out there.

Yeah. So it's,

And that's unfortunate.

Some people don't like their job,
and some people are really bad spot.

And, they have to get up in the morning
and have to go after this terrible thing.

And some people can't get out of it,
because of whatever reason.

Belief system.

I don't know where I'm going
with this, but,

but a lot of those same

people are still very, very,
very happy people.

They don't let that affect them.

They go in, they do it.

They make friends.
They have a good time as best they can.

They hate their boss, but then they don't
let that weigh on them. Right?

They maybe they don't hate their boss,
but whatever.

But then they get out
and they're they're just they do.

They love it. They love life.

And I'm not going to say

ignorance is bliss, but ignorance is bliss
in a way that sometimes

if you think that that's what
all there is, and as long as you're like,

hey, this part of my life
and you rationalized this part of my life,

I've got an awesome partner,
you know, lover, I've got great kids.

I love where I live,
I get to eat the kind of food I want,

and I'm feeling really good
because you think that,

you know,
maybe you think you have to have that job.

Yeah.

You know, and maybe, you know,
you think that there's no way out.

But I didn't think
I'd ever get out of my last job.

And that was
that was soul sucking in the end.

I mean, and things were just going
to keep escalating until I got out

and started doing this work
because I was supposed to leave on my own.

And then just and, you know, like,
it was just bad.

It was the way my last it. Goes too, like,

we need peace.

Like I need another job.

I think then
maybe if you always say, like,

I need another job,
maybe it's just like, I. Need another job.

Yeah, a constant perpetuation.

The reality of I need a job. Interesting.

But again and then again, it's like, what?

It's so great.

What I love about the work
I do is all you need.

You don't ever need to know.

So some of the myths about change
are like, it's really painful

and it's really hard
and it takes a really long time.

Right.

And that you need to know the source of
the problem in order to change something.

But all you need to know what the work
I'm doing is.

Well, what do you want?

Like like I always say, like,
if you got into a cab in New York City,

you wouldn't say to the cabbie, I don't
want to go to the Empire State Building.

I don't want to go to Rockefeller.

Awesome analogy. Yeah.

I want to go want to go directly to,

you know, whatever to Radio City Music
Hall right now.

So when people come in
and they start with this, I just listen to

what they say in a session like a, well,
you know, I really don't like my job.

Like, okay.

And, you know, my mother in law this
and you know, I hate cutting the lawn.

Whatever.

I hate my golf game. And I'm not kidding.

Okay, so I just go.

We could solve one thing today.

What would you like to solve?

I need to get another job.

Okay. Well, why?
Why do you think you have that one?

And you just listen, And I just

listen, I'm just going to, like.

And then you hear them say.

I don't think I'm really smart enough
to get another job.

I'm afraid to leave this job.

That's. I don't think I'll get benefits
at another job.

These are all things
that are holding them in the job. Well.

So what do you want instead?

Well, I want to know, you know,

that I can get an I easily get another job
that makes me happy.

That's an awesome goal statement.
You want to do that balance right now?

What's muscle test it.

And you put their arm out.

You know,
and they say their statement, it's weak.

And then you go through the protocol,
I do the balance.

And sometimes,
you know, 90s later it's done.

We do the balance.

Okay.

So yeah.

So this person back to your scenario,
who is perhaps.

Rationalizing like it's
okay that I have this

because we were also taught, you know,
sometimes you gotta suffer in life.

Life's not easy, right?

Yeah.

You know, my father always say,
what did he always say?

You're not supposed to be happy.

That was that was my download.

Wow.

You know, or or,
you know, it's not supposed to be easy.

Why not?

That's one of my favorite balances.

My life is fun and easy.

Yeah, that's a great secret vibe to be in.

My life is fun and easy.

Or when I have a hard time
with technology, I hate that

I love technology, and then I'm like, oh
my God, I figured it out and and I'm off.

Yeah.

So you work with that person.

And, you know, I always say

when you're feeling the resistance,
so what are you feeling resistant about?

And then, you know,
you work it through with that person.

And when they're done, they immediately
feel like, I know what I'm going to do.

Like, things start to shift
because it's energetic, it's vibrational.

So they happen like this.

They don't happen like this.

Okay, I think beam me up, Scotty.

It works like that.

So you give them something like, what's
something that you couldn't do before?

Like, can you tell me something?

Well, I wasn't able to even think about
going and on. Indeed.

And looking for a job
because I just knew I could get.

What,
do you think he could just go on? Indeed.

Yeah. That's a simple baby step.

That's all you have to do.

You don't ever have to repeat
any affirmations.

Just go talk to them two days later
and they're like, oh my God,

and they're telling you.

But you know what else happened?

I always hate getting dressed up
because I don't like the way I look.

And I, I got dressed up
and I looked in the mirror

and I loved the way I look,
and that never happens

because again, it's a domino effect. Yeah.

The so many things
are tied to our beliefs.

I'm going to leave it there.

That was awesome. That's very, very cool
I love it.

Thank you so much.

We're going to put a bunch of links
and whatnot in the description

so people can find out

how to get Ahold of you and talk
and find out one of your talks and

put the book in there
and all that kind of stuff.

Thank you so much, Annie.
Thanks for coming by.

Thank you. David. Amazing.

And I wish you well with your beautiful
open mic with Dave or Dave.

So open mind. There you go.

Thank you very much.
Thanks for coming. Thanks.

Thanks, everybody.

View episode details


Creators and Guests

David Chmielewski
Host
David Chmielewski
David started his video career in the early 1990s working on video crews as an independent contractor for such companies as Martha Stewart Living, IBM and Xerox. After graduating Southern Connecticut State University with the degree in Corporate Communications, David continued his video production career and accepted a position at WFSB in Hartford, CT. Within a few years the news and production studios became his charge and David designed, installed and maintained the televisions sets for the various programs at the station. At the end of 2013 David founded DirectLine Media, a video production company that specializes in creating memorable and compelling video content for businesses.
David Chmielewski
Producer
David Chmielewski
David started his video career in the early 1990s working on video crews as an independent contractor for such companies as Martha Stewart Living, IBM and Xerox. After graduating Southern Connecticut State University with the degree in Corporate Communications, David continued his video production career and accepted a position at WFSB in Hartford, CT. Within a few years the news and production studios became his charge and David designed, installed and maintained the televisions sets for the various programs at the station. At the end of 2013 David founded DirectLine Media, a video production company that specializes in creating memorable and compelling video content for businesses.
Stefania Sassano
Editor
Stefania Sassano
Stefania's acting journey began as early as the fourth grade, where she took on the role of Scarlett O'Hara in a stage production of Gone With the Wind. This early experience sparked a lifelong passion for the arts. With a background in musical theater fueled by her love of music and singing, Stefania stepped into larger roles, such as Fraulein Kost in Cabaret during her sophomore year at the University of New Haven. This performance earned her a nomination for the prestigious Irene Ryan Acting Award at the Kennedy Center American College Theater Festival—an honor she would receive again in her junior year.

Subscribe

Listen to Dave's Open Mic using one of many popular podcasting apps or directories.

Apple Podcasts Spotify Overcast Pocket Casts Amazon Music YouTube
← Previous · All Episodes · Next →